Life's inequitable distubances and it's solution

 Only when we know, that life is good and we can live it as we can, we come to the understanding that it needs more courage and power to make ourselves more reasonable and powerful. We need more thoughts and expressions, we need greater influence and knowledge and greater test to signify our values over and over, this will make us better individuals overall. We need to become what we truly respect and connect with, that ways of ourselves should never be influenced by outer things, but by inner things, the way we express, see, walk, talk should be our own and encompass our own reasons, and whatever the fact may be one should never become, that way people want us to be, because at the end of the day, we are what we say and do. 

We are the same personality that has to go a long way, but we can not go, even if it is not being ourselves, we have to be honest and truly honest in ourselves, that way, even if somebody comes to ourselves, they will meet what we truly are and by practising daily what we are, we will become, the truest version of our understanding. That way we can lead our life with full honesty, integrity and dignity and also give direction to others in their pursuits of their goals.

The best and truest thing one can embody is it's true self and not some idea that makes other's happy, one has to be a true entity that has some value, principles and notion of what he is doing, some goals that one needs to pursue in order to satisfy his inner self, and that satisfaction comes only when you do it by yourself, by being yourself to the core. If you don't understand an idea or understanding, you don't need to accept it, nor you have to flow by it. You need to fight it, with all your might, because that idea maybe is not as well developed or not have that much knowledge of all the things you say. 

You need to lookout from a depth deeper and understand that what you're saying or doing is right and walk on that path even it has critisms and you have to face problems and uncomfort for that, otherwise it will lead to psychological problems if not dealt with truthfulness, and that can arise to a new problems, so always follow your own path, not of somebody other and seek company of those who truly understand you.

Never be influenced by the ideas of those who criticize you because today they might do, tomorrow they might not. That fact that they don't always want your best, they sometimes just emphasizing on their opinion on what should be like, without knowing what you are, what you are facing or from where you are coming.

You must hold on to your personality tightly and with full strength, people will adjust and understand, they will understand your viewpoint someday if not today, but you need to be your true self, and state your thought and opinion.

Here's a high-five to a stronger you.